Showing posts with label safety tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label safety tips. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Survive the Dinosaurs, Survive Nature

Jurassic World recently came out to own - it’s fun, a bit silly, and just maybe has a message.  And not just this Jurassic movie, but all of them collectively.  A rather important message really, albeit hidden under monstrous dinosaurs and running humans and, yes, a healthy dose of ridiculously fantastic deaths.  So...what is this message?


Or, more generally, nature is a powerful force that should not be interacted with lightly.  Nature should be respected at all times and playing God is not a wise choice, especially if you've not considered the repercussions of what you do.  Disregarding Mother Nature is dangerous - both for you and those around you - and these films show that in very clear ways...especially concerning two specific facets in dealing with Nature.

Facet #1: Respect Nature's Creatures

ALL her creatures.  From your fellow human to a velociraptor to baby birds hopping about.  There are, of course, various levels of disrespect to show from disregard to outright abuse, but any manner of discourtesy seems to result in the same ending.  Death; specifically death-by-dinosaur.  In every movie there's at least one guy (it's generally a man) who makes the mistake of treating a dinosaur poorly.  Whether that be through name calling, mocking, or an act of aggression a human inevitably makes the mistake of thinking themselves dominant over animal and then the graver mistake of showing this apparent dominance to a nearby creature.




In the first movie this is computer tech, Dennis Nedry, who - let's be honest - is kind of a dick in general.  He's loud, rude, obnoxious, and smarmy to pretty much everyone and everything.  He’s also self-serving; willing to steal from his employers for a quick buck at a time when they need his skills the most.  Clearly this guy was going to die, but his big mistake and ultimate demise doesn't come until he runs across the poison-spitting, carnivorous, Dilophosaurus.  Due to the dinosaur's initial non-threatening appearance Nedry isn't just dismissive with it, he's a bit threatening telling it that he'll run it down when he returns from selling embryos to the competition.  It's no surprise moments later the Dilophosaurus shows his own true nature by spitting blinding poison at Nedry's face and (off-camera) eating him alive.

In the second movie it's a hunter named Dieter Stark.  Another guy who's not exactly good to start given the whole hunter thing.  He seals his fate when a curious little Compsognathus (aka "Compy") comes over to examine him and another and Stark shocks it with a cattle prod.  It lets out a pained squeal as it flees and that seems the end of things.  Little does Stark realize that the breed is carnivorous and already responsible for a young girl nearly losing her finger in the beginning of the film.  Now that he's set himself up as a threat the Compys band together to take him out the moment the opportunity presents itself, ultimately tearing him apart and eating him alive.

In Jurassic World the fool to disrespect nature is Hoskins, a man more interested in weaponizing Velociraptors (aka Raptors) than seeing them as their own beings.  When he gets close to one he treats it as one would a tamed puppy with condescending speech and clicks of his tongue.  While not the most abusive in the film series - he gives no indication he has any intention of injuring the animals - he's still not respectful.  He still thinks he's the dominant being out there, still thinks the dinosaurs as "less than", and is flagrant about it.  So it's not that shocking, when confronted with a freed Raptor, he gets eaten alive like all the previous fools.

All animals, be them prehistoric or modern, should be treated with respect.  They should not be dismissed, abused, or threatened.  They may not be able to speak and act as a human being, but that doesn't make them less-than and it certainly doesn't mean they won't fight back and/or protect themselves.

Facet #2: Never Presume Nature Can Be Controlled

It seems at least once in every Jurassic film someone declares "yeah, but we made sure this is under our control" in one way or another.  And, every time, they are proven horrifically wrong.  Each time nature adjusts, adapts, and evolves around the seeming controls that humans have set into place, which is just what it's supposed to do.  In order to survive all living things work their way around obstacles.  ...Dr Ian Malcolm in the very first film really did put it best.




In the initial Jurassic Park Dr Alan Grant and Dr Ellie Sattler both wonder how it is the park intends to prevent unauthorized breeding of the dinosaurs to which geneticist Henry Wu explains that he's manipulated DNA so that all the dinosaurs are female.  Seems a great fix as females can't breed with one another.  The problem is the froggie DNA mixed in to complete the dinosaurs happens to be from an amphibian that can change gender when required.  Needless to say nature considers a sex-change is required and breeding in the wild begins (one of the things that leads to the next two sequels).

In the second film a group decides to "collect" the dinosaurs from their island where they've been living as the naturally wild creatures they are and try to stick them in a park based in San Diego.  For the most part it’s a disaster, of course, but they do manage to nab and sedate a T-Rex.  Problem is when it wakes up someone goes to open the cargo hold (presumably in attempt to re-sedate) and the massive carnivore gets completely free.  It goes on to terrorize the streets of San Diego until it can be lured back to the hold via its baby - for once the need to preserve life, to carry on the species, working in the humans' favor.

For the third film the battle to survive is shown when someone makes the mistake of stealing Raptor eggs causing all the Raptors on the island to start chasing after him and a group who crash-landed there.  It isn’t until one of the crash-survivors returns the eggs that the humans are in any way safe…a real stroke of luck (and “the leads can’t die” rule) keeps the Raptors from attacking them after they get their babies back.

The latest film has geneticist Wu back creating dinosaurs and this time original species of them.  Naturally this is where things go wrong - in efforts to make the perfect scare for the park Wu makes the perfect predator.  Indominus-Rex.  Especially vicious, especially aggressive, especially intelligent, and something that kills as much for food as for thrills.  This time the DNA-mix includes cuttlefish, which leads to the Indominus being able to camouflage itself, Raptor, which leads to the other Raptors turning on the humans, and something else that allows the Indominus to change its internal temperature when desired.   Needless to say once things go sideways with this dinosaur all hell breaks loose at Jurassic World.



It’s entirely possible that those who watch the franchise have no interest in thinking about its deeper message...or thinking deeply at all.  That’s totally fine.  Everyone should be able to enjoy some escapism in the comical deaths-by-dinosaurs for the sake of it, yet those who do find the message and take it to heart may survive a little longer out in nature, even the dinosaur-free kind.

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Back To School Safety: Bullying

School's here folks!  Time to learn new things and get a refresher course in the classics for those of every age.  It also means that new and old safety concerns will arise depending on the grade level your child is going into.  One in particular seems pervasive in all grades though...bullying.  Sometimes it even goes beyond the standard K-12 and, sadly, there's no magic wand or trick to rid oneself of the problem.  It happens.  Kids can be a bully, a victim, or even both.  Whatever category they fall into there are things to help prevent bullying, signs to look out for, and things to do if you suspect it's occurring.

(In order to keep things simple I'm going to stick to lists; lists for books, school supplies, classes, and now safety.)

Prevention

Prevent your child from becoming a VICTIM:
  • Instill self-confidence in your child - a confident child is less likely to be seen as an easy target
  • Help your child establish good social skills - bullies aren't going to go after a child who is well liked and has friends that'll stand up for them
  • Teach your child to speak out for him or herself - bullies tend to target those who fold easily, run away, and/or stay silent so a child who stands up and speaks out is less likely to be a target
  • Tell your child that they should seek help from you and other caring adults if harassed - at the very least someone else, someone with more power, is being made aware of the problem

Prevent your child from becoming a BULLY:
  • Present yourself as a model of non-violent behavior - children model themselves after the key adults in their lives so, if you're not a bully, they're less likely to be one
  • Clearly state that violence is not acceptable
  • Assist your child in finding non-violent strategies for anger management and conflict resolution - some kids just aren't emotionally mature enough to keep from lashing out so need to be taught more constructive alternatives
  • Seek help from mental health/school counselors to help stop bullying and aggressive behavior - sometimes things are beyond your control and seeking outside help may be the best option
Signs

A child being bullied may often:
  • Withdraw socially; "lose" friends without apparent cause - bullies will frequently try and isolate a victim from whatever friends they have (often via rumors or bullying those around their key victim) in order to further dominate the victim
  • Feel isolated, alone, and sad
  • Feel picked on or persecuted - both because they are and because it's likely that others aren't sticking up for him/her even if aware of the bullying
  • Feel rejected and not liked - again, because it's unlikely others are sticking up for him/her even if aware or a witness to the bullying
  • Complain of illness - because they are getting sick from stress and/or so they don't have to go to school
  • Not want to go to school; avoid certain classes or skip school altogether - they're avoiding the bully
  • Bring home damaged possessions or report them “lost” - the bully having either damaged or taken them
  • Cry easily; display mood swings and/or talk of hopelessness
  • Talk about running away
  • Talk of suicide
  • Threaten violence to self and/or others
  • Have changes in eating and/or sleeping patterns
  • Take or attempt to take “protection” to school (a stick, knife, gun, etc.)
  • Display “victim” body language: hang head, hunch shoulders, avoid eye contact
A bully may often:
  • Seek to dominate and/or manipulate others
  • Enjoy feeling powerful and in control (whether they really are or not)
  • Be a poor winner (boastful and arrogant) and/or a poor loser (aggressive and threatening)
  • Seem to derive satisfaction from other’s fears, discomfort, or pain
  • Be good at hiding behaviors or do them when/where adults can’t notice
  • Be excited/entertained by conflicts between others
  • Blame others for his/her problems
  • Display uncontrollable anger
  • Display patterns of impulsive and chronic hitting, intimidating, and/or other aggressive behaviors
  • Have a history of discipline problems
  • Have a history of violent and aggressive behaviors
  • Display intolerance and prejudice towards others
  • Use drugs, alcohol, and/or be a member of a gang
  • Lack empathy towards others
Key side note on signs of a bully: the bullies of yesteryear are on their way out.  Frequently the bullies of today are popular, well-liked by teachers and fellow students, and at first glance may lack many of the signs listed above.  They are not always the "bad kids" who've been in trouble repeatedly for aggressive or illicit activities; though many of the emotional and/or psychological aspects (such as enjoying power and control and having a lack of empathy towards others) will remain the same.  This is important to keep in mind when confronting any bullying issue.

It (Might've) Happened...Now What?

If you suspect your child is being bullied:
  • Make sure your child knows being bullied is not his or her fault - it's both common and normal for any victim to think they brought the attack upon themselves in some way
  • Let your child know that he or she does not have to face being bullied alone - family, school staff, and peers are all there as support (current or potential)
  • Discuss ways of responding to bullies - this should not include responding aggressively; fighting will likely just get them in trouble as well and, if school staff isn't aware of the situation, they may end up seeing the victim as the bully.  Instead discuss the options listed below:
  • Teach your child to be assertive - assertive people are less likely to be bullied in general
  • Tell your child not to react, but to walk away (preferably to the nearest adult) - bullies are looking for a reaction, if they don't get one they may move on/give up (and if pursued then your child will find safety and witnesses in the presence of an adult)
  • Tell your child to report bullying immediately to a trusted adult - once people are informed about the problem further steps can be taken
  • Contact the school/teacher - for the same reason mentioned above...and, no matter who they tell, remind the victim that telling is not "tattling"
If you think your child is a bully:
  • Be sure that your child knows any form of bullying is not acceptable behavior
  • Explain to your child the penalties for bullying and be sure to enforce them fairly and consistently
  • Help your child learn alternative ways to deal with anger and frustration
  • Teach and reward more appropriate behavior
  • Work out a way for your child to make amends for the bullying
  • Help your child develop an understanding of the impact of their bullying on the target
  • Seek help or counseling if the behavior continues
  • Stay clam, especially if contacted by the school or another child's parent/guardian; try not to become angry and/or defensive.  Make sure to really listen and be objective.  Remember this is ultimately about the well-being of your child as much as any other child involved
One other thing I want to touch on is the newest version of bullying that's becoming increasingly popular...Cyberbullying.  This is a form of bullying done online and via cellphones that can include everything from name-calling and threats to creating pages to bash the victim and fake profiles to impersonate others (such as the victim or a boy/girl interested in the victim).  Those who cyberbully can be different than the average bully due to the anonymity that being online and/or on a cellphone can provide.  Rather than pretend to understand all its intricacies and/or risk expanding this piece far beyond the "quick read" I intend here are a few sites specifically on cyberbullying for those interested:
  • Stop Cyberbullying
  • Cyber-Bullying Prevention
  • Cyberbullying.org
  • MetLife Defender: Online Child Safety - this site has a range of articles dealing with cyberbullying along with other potential online dangers.  They also have an Anti-Bullying App available that may help you uncover potential cyberbullying involving your child.  The articles are free and they offer a 30-day free trial for their MetLife Defender plan (which has the app).  ...And just to be clear no one's paying me to mention the site or app, they just seem potentially useful tools for the concerned parent.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Halloween Special: Avoiding "Tricks" Tips


Halloween is this upcoming Saturday so I'd like to share some safety tips now, before the holiday.  Most have been ingrained in every man, woman, and child's head already,  but there might be a few that have been overlooked, need to be updated for the times, or people heard so often they've stopped actually taking to heart.  I'll be covering five that would fit into at least one of those categories.


Tip #1:  Make Your Cellphone Part of the Costume

Even the undead would probably roam around with a cellphone these days so dressing like a zombie, vampire, or anything else, doesn't mean to you can't bring yours.  Yes, I imagine having a cell ring while dressed as a ninja could be a little awkward - and totally kill those stealth moves of yours - but it's better than being out on the town, in trouble, and having no way to call for help.  My advice is to work it into your costume somehow; whether attaching it to your superhero (or is that villain?) utility belt, sticking it in a bag adjusted to match your costume, or just tucking it in a back pocket, bra, or waistband.  If you made your costume than you're more than creative enough to find a place for your cell.  To better suit the season you can always use a really creepy ringtone for the night; just be sure you've got a way to keep in touch with others while out on Hallow's Eve.


Tip #2: Pre-Plan Your Route

This is geared towards Trick-Or-Treaters old enough to go off with their friends…or any adult doing a Halloween inspired party-hop/pub-crawl.  There's actually a few reasons this is a good idea, both outside of safety or for it.  Outside of safety the group you're with won't ever really have to stop the expedition throughout the neighborhood/city to debate which street to head down next, you'll already have it pre-planned.  You can even plan according to the places known for the best treats/drinks/atmosphere to optimize the night’s experience.  On the safety end it's good simply because people know where you'll be so if you go missing due to confusion or foul play others will know where to look - along your route - and be able to search from there.  For the Trick-Or-Treaters there can also be an agreed upon time that you'll return home (or to whatever end point is chosen from which you'll call adults in charge) so people - a.k.a. parents or guardians - know when to start worrying.  For the costumed partiers and pub-crawlers there can be an agreed upon crash pad so that no one needs to worry about getting home alone safely after all the festivities.


Tip #3 Treats Stay Outside!

Just like any other day of the calendar do not, under any circumstances, enter someone's house or car while trick-or-treating.  There is no reason to.  Any candy you're going to get you can get right there on the front porch (in front of witnesses) and any offers to come inside should be refused.  As far as cars...well who hands out candy to random folks from their cars without some other ulterior motive?  Keep your trick-or-treating to the the front porches of well-lit houses on your route.  (If you’re going to a party or on a pub-crawl the opposite is true - don’t leave with people you don’t know, just like you shouldn’t at any other time of the year.)


Tip #4 Avoid Shortcuts

Shortcuts, especially those through unlit and unpopulated areas, are never a good idea.  True they can get you to the place with the better candy, booze, or party faster, but they're also a great place for those of ill-intent to hide in wait for a victim.  Quite simply, the risk isn't worth it.  The possible urge to take shortcuts can be avoided if the tip to pre-plan your route is taken…in planning your route ahead of time you can find the best and fastest routes without having to even think about using shortcuts.  Also included in shortcuts should be yards, parking lots, and (visits to/cuts through) graveyards since they are also places where you don't know what or who might be around.  What’s true for trick-or-treating is true for party-hopping/pub-crawling in this case; just stick to a nicely lit, safe, route so you can enjoy yourself without worry.


Tip #5 Use Sidewalks

While obvious almost any other time of the year, a great deal of folks forget this one on Halloween night.  It's understandable, in a group of costumed individuals, everyone hyped on sugar and/or liquor, one might feel special and not required to follow the usual rules of the road...after all cars will be looking out for you and other revelers.  However, some drivers might be coming back from a Halloween event where they've been drinking - in other words: drunk drivers are around! - and even the most careful and sober driver might have trouble seeing someone dressed all in black as a Sith lord.  In the end it's better to stick to sidewalks and making sure to look out for cars while crossing road like you’d normally do.



Now...go!  Give those costumes a final touch, grab an extra bag of candy, queue up some horror films, and enjoy the greatness that is Halloween!